Haley Holland spent the last four days in and out of University of Washington Medical Center, watching over her husband Patrick. She says he got a call late Thursday telling him a heart was available.
“ Now we can look forward to 10 years together, 20, 30 I joke about wanting to see our 45th wedding anniversary.”
The Hollands were married in 2006. They have four children together, all of whom were able to fly down on Friday, while Patrick was in the OR.
“We landed at seven o'clock in the morning -- we landed like 15 minutes early and at like 7:06 the surgeon calls me and says that surgery's done.”
This was long-awaited news. Holland has had congestive heart failure since his late 20s. Three years ago, doctors told him he needed a transplant.
Many Alaskans heard 57-year-old Patrick Holland’s story last winter. He got a call December 22 from UWMed Center that heart that was a perfect match was waiting for him in Seattle. He and his brother boarded a plane out of Fairbanks early the next morning, but it was diverted from Seattle by a terrible ice storm, and the plane turned around and landed in Anchorage. Holland had to let that heart go to another person on the transplant list. That week, he said he decided to move to Seattle.
“Because I’m not gonna miss another chance, it’s not going to happen.”
Holland has been living with a couple in Seattle’s Capitol Hill neighborhood close to the hospital for the last three months, while Haley and the kids stayed in North Pole. He tried to keep active.
“ You know, he came down here and got a part-time job working with clients with severe dementia. That's just what he has a heart for.”
Since January, there were three times when he was called to the transplant center to receive a new heart, but they all fell through. Once before in March, Haley and the kids flew in only to hear the operation would not happen.
“We have, we have been completely knocked askew with, with every aspect of our life.”
Since Patrick’s transplant, Haley has been able to visit twice a day, and has had the children, aged four to 17, in, one or two at a time. She is learning what comes next.
“Well, it has just been replaced by a different uncertainty. Getting a heart transplant is replacing one disease with another.”
She says she knows some patients don’t live to recover. There are rejection and complications.
“And that’s the life we’re facing now.”
Patrick won’t be coming home to North Pole for several months.
“He’ll be in ICU for 3-4 weeks” then to a recovery facility called Transplant House for three to four months of occupational and physical therapy and cardiac rehabilitation.
Haley Holland anticipates being in Seattle about two more weeks for this trip.
There is nothing different about being here from being at home in terms of laundry and dishes and feeding the kids and occupying their time. Having the kids with me is probably the only thing keeping me from turning into a puddle of tears. I'm making sure that this is an adventure for them and not a traumatizing experience.
She says she has much to be thankful for. And reminds people to register as organ donors.
